For many people September is a time of change and new beginnings. It certainly is for families with children; each one starting a new class, school or college. It can be difficult for our children who leave a familiar environment and move into the unknown. What will the new teacher be like? Will I make any friends? As parents we accept and welcome these changes as being helpful and beneficial. As adults we often resist change but part of the work of the Holy Spirit is to stir in us a holy discontent. Not one that will lead to grumbling, but to growth.
In the Bible there are many stories of people whose lives are changed by an encounter with God. Zacchaeus was a tax collector who took more than he should to make himself rich. He ended up with plenty of money but no friends. Jesus spotted him hiding in a tree and invited himself to tea. This meeting with Jesus changed Zacchaeus’s life. He gave back to people all that he had swindled four times over. He had changed from being selfish to being selfless. It must have made quite an impact on the community and made Jesus even more of a hero.
We may not be able to sit down with Jesus over a cup of tea, but an important part of prayer and reading the Bible is asking God to speak to us. It is nice to receive assurances of God’s love and comfort. It can be a more life changing to be challenged about how we are in way that leads to change and ultimately a richer and fuller life. How selfish are we in our attitude to money, to the poor, to our neighbour, to those who hurt us?
Migrants are a big part of the news at the moment. It is hard to imagine what horrors drive people to risk death and exploitation. It is a difficult problem that needs a global response. We must remember that these are human beings like us, only born in a different place. Our response must be to care for those seeking escape as well as seeking to deal with the causes that drive people to such extremes.
Rev Bill Henderson
Thank you to everyone who worked so hard to make our Summer Gala such a success, and thank you to all who came to support us. It was great to have such good weather.
People have been asking me about what is happening on the old church site. We have been waiting for the ground to settle and to try and find funds to do the work. This month should see the final gravestones put back in position after having been moved to safety during the site work.
This is the time we really need your support. The stone plaques from the War Memorial are being cleaned up and the lettering recording the names of those who gave their lives re-gilded. This is to prepare the plaques for placing in their new position on the site. This work on the plaques is going to cost £2,420 and will produce something that will show our respect for the fallen.
The stone mason who has had the stones in safe keeping is going to retire soon, so we need to get the work done as soon as possible. Please prayerfully consider if you would be willing to contribute to this cause. If you are able to give, then please contact Eleanor Plant in the church office. If you are a tax payer, and you gift aid your gift, then we can claim the tax back from the Inland Revenue. The contact details for the church office are on the back of the magazine.
The War Memorial helps us remember soldiers who lost their lives in war. It is shocking today, to be remembering the lives of innocent holiday makers, gunned down on a beach in Tunisia, as well as other atrocities: Christians being beheaded and Mosques blown up. It is important for us to be praying for peace and an end to extremist violence. We can set an example of disagreeing well. That is not to pretend that we agree about every thing, but be passionate about what we believe and still listen to and stay in relationship with those with whom we disagree.
Rev Bill Henderson
I have just had the great privilege of spending three weeks in East Africa. For the 3rd week, my daughter Susie and I went on a road trip adventure. This involved hiring a 4×4 and driving down to Tanzania to visit our link parish and for Susie to deliver a training course for her women’s health project.
The traffic in Nairobi gets very bad, so we started our trip at 4am. This was a great success, as we got out of the city easily and got to the Tanzanian border by midday. Once in Tanzania, we were met by the link person for the diocese, Peter Oyoo. We spent the first night in Tarime and set off the next day for Sakawa, our link parish, in time for the Sunday service. Driving on dirt roads in the rainy season is very difficult and we were glad to have the 4×4!
We had a most warm and enthusiastic welcome with singing and dancing outside the church, followed by a lively service. They produced a feast afterwards, which was humbling to receive. We had sent funds for a rain water harvesting system from the church roof. We saw it had been completed, albeit only two days earlier. We exchanged gifts and shared prayer needs. They promised to dedicate a special day of prayer for our church building and securing a long lease. The next day found us at Kowak where Susie did her training about health and making sanitary towels using locally sourced materials. She expected 15 people, but 63 turned up! It really showed how important this is. We will watch to see if the ideas and lessons are taken up.
We went on to meet with the Water for Life team in Musoma and Tarime. We visited one of the well sites that has stalled as they have reached rock. They are not allowed to use dynamite as they are within the town boundaries. One solution would be to drill, but that would be very expensive. The lack of resources means that problems that would be straightforward to solve in this country, are almost impossible there. Susie met with Lucy, a dynamic lady working in women’s health.
From Tarime we returned to Kenya and successfully negotiated the border. The next day we drove through the Maasai Mara game reserve, then had the long drive to Nairobi through very heavy rain and awkward police checks. Thank the Lord we arrived safely exhilarated by our journey. Thank you for your support.
Rev Bill Henderson
I have spent some time recently in Kenya visiting our daughter, and travelling back to Tanzania to help with the ‘Water for Life’ project. It has been running for 7 years now and so far over £75,000 has been raised and sent to the project.
We began by helping train people to build hand dug wells and fit hand pumps to extract the water. There is also an important element of health education so that people understand the value of clean water. The purpose of the visit is to help evaluate the project, see what lessons can be learned and how to carry on into the future. I hope to get some good feedback from the local people about what has been helpful.
There are a number of challenges to make the project work. The first one is for the villagers to take responsibility for ‘their’ well in the long term so it will be maintained. Education is part of this so people will understand the health benefits. Finding a good site can be difficult too and of course it is very discouraging to dig down, even breaking through rock, only to find there is no water. We have been looking at ways to do more effective surveys, but these can be expensive.
I visited each of the three dioceses: Mara, Rorya and Tarime. Mara is well established and has an experienced team working in development. Tarime is a new diocese but has some very good staff working for them. Rorya has much poorer infrastructure and probably needs different support.
I flew into Nairobi, Kenya, then hired a 4×4 and drove with Susie over the border into Tanzania. This is always an interesting trip; hot, dusty with lots to see. We met with the development team and people from the communities in each of the dioceses. In some places it is not suitable to dig a well and so the project is to harvest rain water from roofs. This does not provide as good a solution as a well, but is better than just going to a river or unprotected well. Susie will teach about her women’s health project and see if it can be launched in our link dioceses. In Rorya diocese, I visited our link parish, Sakawa. I also visited Rose and her husband, Samuel, who is now principal of the local Bible College. Rose visited us here in Stanley some years ago.
Rev Bill Henderson
Since the demolition of the old church we have been working to establish a long term place of worship in the village.
There has been recent change in the legal designation of the Church Centre. It is now a ‘Parish Centre of Worship’. A Parish Centre of Worship is a church or other building licensed as such by the diocesan bishop in the Church of England, usually where there is no parish church. For most purposes it is deemed to be a parish church but it is dedicated, not consecrated, and parishioners have a right to be married in a neighbouring parish. There is also a licence to be married at St Peter’s Church and Centre too. This means people living in Stanley have a choice about where they get married. So if you are thinking about getting married and are not sure of your options do get in touch.
The events we remember at Easter are, I would say, the most decisive events in human history. They contain the deepest tragedy and the greatest hope. As we enter into this story once again, we are given strength to face our own difficulties and confidence to embrace our times of joy.
Jesus was called to the home of his dear friend Lazarus who was on the point of death. But he does not set off straight away. By the time he arrives, Lazarus has died. His sisters Martha and Mary, both say, “ If only you had been here”. But Jesus transforms the situation; he claims to BE the resurrection and the life. Then he demonstrates it by raising Lazarus from the dead.
The implication of this does not sink in for the disciples—that Jesus has the power over death. So when Jesus was killed, his friends were frightened and upset. This changed when Jesus was not resuscitated like Lazarus but resurrected. At this Easter may we know the transforming power of Christ, so we experience the hope of new life in whatever we face.
Rev Bill Henderson
One of the great themes of God’s relationship with his people throughout history, is helping them move from slavery into freedom. As we approach Easter we see this powerful picture of hope displayed in a number of ways. At Passover the Jewish people remember how God set his people free from slavery in Egypt, using symbols to remember both the pain and suffering as well as the joy.
This year we are planning some thing special for Maundy Thursday—the night we remember Jesus at the last supper with his friends. It was the time of the Jewish Passover and Jesus took the traditional symbols that had been used for hundreds of years and developed them in a way that is relevant for us today. We will be celebrating a version of the Passover meal.
This has been the foundation for the communion service that we use today. Taking part in the Passover meal really adds to our understanding of the history of our faith, and the powerful symbols of bread and wine help us to identify with the first disciples.
When Jesus took these symbols and applied them to himself, he was pointing to a profound new way that God was setting people free. Free from a deeper and more insidious slavery, a slavery to selfishness that leads to self destruction. This is not just a message for 2000 years ago, but a message for today. A message not just for certain communities, but for everyone. As we become more self aware we realise the different ways that we are still slaves: slaves to other peoples’ opinion; slaves to the desire for more money or excitement; slaves to fashion and consumerism. Each of us can move and grow into new freedom. Jesus said, “ I have come that you may have LIFE, and life in abundance”. He delivered this promise, supremely by releasing us from the fear of death by his glorious resurrection.
This is a time when we seek to receive this promise afresh. Do please make a point of coming to join in our celebrations that evening, Thursday 2nd April at 7.30pm in the Church Centre, or some of our other Easter celebrations, details of which you can find here.
Rev Bill Henderson
This is the first magazine of 2015, so I would like to begin with wishing you a Happy New Year.
This time last year I was writing about the imminent dismantling of the old church building, and inviting people to a service that we held to commemorate its place in the community. We had a really good turn out, so thank you to those who supported that, and came to tea at the Centre afterwards. It was a moving service and I was encouraged by the number of people who came
We are determined that the old site will continue to be a sacred space where people can come to sit, reflect or pray. We are working with Groundworks to take the ideas that have come from the community and turn them into a workable plan to include the War Memorial and an attractive seating area. We are now looking for funding to take the plans forward. People have been offering to contribute, either with funds or with time and skills. The more we can work together to put the plans into place, the more it will be a genuine community project that will be sustainable and we can be proud of. Let us know if you would like to help.
With the old building gone, there is the opportunity and challenge to continue to develop a place of worship in Stanley that people will want to use for the important occasions in life when people naturally turn to the church: weddings, baptisms and funerals. The place we are seeking to develop is the old nursery building we are using now. From the outside, architecturally it is clearly a school. We are looking for ways to transform its identity so that it is clearly a place of Christian worship as well as a place to serve the community in other ways.
The council have kindly agreed for an Asset Transfer of the building to us for 25 years. If we are going to do major work on it, it would be helpful to have a longer lease, and we are in discussions about that now. Please pray that they will be successful. We would welcome ideas from the village, so if you feel inspired, please get in touch.
Rev Bill Henderson
I came across this picture some years ago, as an idea for a Christmas card. It’s a picture that set me thinking about a number of messages that are important for Christmas.
The focus of the picture is Jesus as a baby, but with the star that shows this is not an ordinary baby. The star is a symbol of his power and glory, his light and role as guide and revealer of the truth.
Jesus is the one whom people are coming to see and to meet. The people are from different cultures yet all are attracted to see Jesus. The Bible and Christian history are full of stories of people meeting Jesus and their lives being transformed. If our Christmas is going to start with Christ, this means taking time to think what this means.
I would like to encourage you to use this picture to think about Christmas and your place in the story. Where would you put yourself in the picture? What would it mean to meet with Jesus? How would you like your life and your relationships to be transformed?
With all the rush and bustle of Christmas, it is sometimes hard to keep the focus on Jesus. With all the crowds it is sometimes hard to really meet with each other.
Please take the opportunity to come to some of the events advertised in this magazine; decide to start this Christmas with Christ and show his love to one another.
Rev Bill Henderson
We are moving towards the end of 2014 already. The clocks have gone back and the dark evenings are drawing in but we are seeing the beautiful autumn colours beginning to show as we move into the next season.
Plans are also progressing for the site of the old church. The idea is to make it a place that people will want to come and visit; a place for reflection; a place to tell stories of Christ, the church and the community. Plans will be on display from 17th November and there will be a drop-in day on Friday 21st November. It would be helpful if you have any ideas to hear from you.
A theme this month is ‘remembering’. We had the Memorial Service for people who have died recently on October 26th. Thank you to all those who came and stayed on for tea and cakes; there was a real sense of supporting each other at a difficult time. The Remembrance Service for those who have been killed in wars will be at 10am on Sunday November 9th. As part of the service we will go over to the site of the War Memorial to place poppies and wreaths there. Do come and join us.
Each of these services are different, and at each we do more than just remember. We are bringing God into a situation that is painful. We show respect and show how we value the lives of those who have died. We say thank you for what they have given us. Sadly, as we look around today, the prospects for world peace are not very good. It is truly shocking as we observe what human beings do to each other, for example the terrible actions of ISIS and others: cycles of violence that only seem to escalate.
We can be left feeling helpless but there are some things we can do. We remember with thanks the death of Jesus; a death that was not in vain as we show each time we respond to Him. Jesus was also the great peacemaker, and lays down a challenge for us: love your enemies; do not keep a record of wrongs; forgive one another. We may not be able to effect world peace, but we can be peacemakers in our families and community.
Rev Bill Henderson
After a bit of a break, work has continued on the site of the old church. The ground has been prepared for grass seeding and we are waiting for the grave stones that were moved for protection to be replaced. It is now possible to see more clearly what the state of the site will be when it is handed over ready for the next stage. I would very much like for the community to get involved with ideas and helping with the work.
One of the jobs to be done is to clear the path that leads down the steps to Aberford Road. I would like to invite anyone who would like to help to come on Saturday 18th October to help. Please bring your own tools if you can. We will start at 10am and if enough people come, it will not take too long. On the down side, it looks like some of the stones that have been left for building the legacy of the old church have been stolen. I would ask people to look out for this and report any suspicious activities to the police.
We are moving forward with the plans for building a suitable place for the war memorial and peace garden. These will be on display when we have our next consultation during the week beginning 17th November, in the Church Centre. On Friday 21st there will be people available to talk to and ask questions. We have had some great ideas so far. One of the graves that will be restored is of a local engineer called Bartholomew. His story is well known in Goole but is little known in his home town, Stanley. We would like to have something that tells his story. There may be other stories from the past to record and I would like to hear your ideas.
This is also the time of year when we celebrate harvest. We can stop and think about the good gifts that come from the earth, our gratitude to God and to those who work the land. We would like to invite you to join in these celebrations. There will be a Ceilidh on Saturday October 11th at St Peter’s School, with the usual live band (please ring 835746 for tickets). There will be a special service on Sunday morning at 10am and on Tuesday October 14th a harvest lunch open to all in the village but especially aimed at the more mature members of the community to come and join us.
Rev Bill Henderson